Carmel Breathnach Reflects on Losing Her Mom at Age 11

“I would say that one caring, consistent, loving presence is enough to make a difference in a child’s life. And that child will love you so much for the care that you give them. And just be present for them, hear them, see them, and also take care of your own health. That’s very important.”

— Carmel Breathnach

I had such a great discussion with Carmel Breathnach for this episode. Carmel is originally from Ireland and now lives in Portland, Oregon. She lost her mom at age 11, and writes primarily about early mother loss. She’s working on her memoir, “Briefly I Knew My Mother.”

Some topics Carmel and I discussed include:

  • Carmel reads from a letter she recently wrote to her 11-year-old self;

  • Ways her dad supported her and her brother after her mom’s death;

  • Challenges with school and teachers;

  • What she’s learned by having to face grief as a young person;

  • What brought her to the US;

  • How her early experience with grief influenced her work as a teacher; and

  • Her thoughts on Mother’s Day as a motherless daughter.

I hope you enjoy my discussion with Carmel Breathnach.

 
 
 
 

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Jenny Lisk

Jenny Lisk is the founder of the Widowed Parent Institute. She is an award-winning author and widowed mom who is dedicated to helping widowed parents increase their family's well-being. Jenny’s books, Future Widow and Widowed Parents Unite, and her show, The Widowed Parent Podcast, guide the journey of solo parenting after loss.

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